I have to laugh sometimes at just how pathetic my loser boyfriend is. It’s incredible to me that men can be so easily rule by their cocks. Maybe, as a female, I have just been socialized to be able to ignore sexuality when the time calls for it. But geeze, shove his cock into a chastity device and tease him a little and it is like you are the queen of his world! Sometimes I have to believe in the old adage of how men have two heads and are generally rule by the one in their lower regions.
One of my favorite pastimes to keep my loser of edge is to give him an hour long hand job without allowing him to cum. I love doing this mainly because it drives him crazy and secondly because I can watch TV while I do it, or even read….and I love to read! When I think about what it was like before we started this Femdom relationship I get so happy. It used to be that when I would be trying to read in bed, I would always be interrupted by his rock hard cock poking me in the back. Which is fine, it’s normal but sometimes you just want to be left alone to enjoy your book. And there’s nothing more annoying than a tiny little rod poking into your back while you have no interest in having sex.
So what I like to do is to place him next to me and to lube up one hand while holding my book
with the other. Sometimes I will even turn away from him, so that I just have to reach behind me a bit. I know him so well that I can tell from his breathing and the way his body starts to move when he is about to cum. This is such an advantage because I can just subconsciously monitor how close he is and in the meantime concentrate on whatever else I am doing.
Every time he is about to cum, I simply take my hand off of his cock and let the poor little thing stand straight up and throb. He knows better than to try and touch his own dick. It’s funny sometimes when he was really close to an orgasm and I let go and stop all stimulation, his hips still thrust upwards just a bit as if he is trying to get fuck the air. I always laugh when I notice that, it is just so utterly pathetic. Tease and denial could never do that to a woman from my point of view. Once in awhile I will have a sock or towel next to me and after an hour I will let him have an explosive and extremely built up orgasm, but most of the time, I chose to simply wait until his cock has deflated just a bit and then I shove him back into chastity. The look on his face as he tries to keep composer is priceless when I tell him to go do the dishes or whatever chore he has yet to do.